EIGHT (8) UNROMANTIC THINGS MEN DO

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The things listed below are unromantic things that men do which they ought not to; that is if they want to be romantic. We have brought you 10 romantic things to spice up your love life; now we bring you 8 unromantic things men do. If you do these, then you are definitely not the romantic type. Check them outPeople do some things and feel it’s romantic but it’s nowhere near being romantic. Not everyone knows how to be romantic; people do very unromantic things and they have no clue they are being unromantic. Like I’ve always said, being romantic is an art and if you don’t have it in you, you can learn it
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1. FORGETTING HER BIRTHDAY A lady’s birthday is as important as her handbag, that’s if you know what that means. Most guys don’t remember their lady’s birthday and it’s normal but that doesn’t make it romantic. To a lady, there is no excuse for forgetting her birthday. Even if you can’t send a gift across, a simple call would make her happy at least. A simple message of “happy birthday dear” is way better than “oh, sorry dear, I forgot.” Women take things too serious; forgetting her birthday is more like you don’t have her in mind. Let me give you a simple trick; I never forget a lady’s birthday, not that I always remember but I always set it on my phone’s reminder. Ordinarily, I won’t remember but since I’m tired of hearing the usual “so you forgot my birthday”, I became wise. I think you should employ that if you want a healthy relationship.
2. SHOUTING AT HER WHEN WITH FRIENDS
Shouting at a lady is never romantic but doing that when she’s with friends or when you are with your friends is even worse. But guys can be so ill mannered at times; they always want to stamp their authority especially in public, forgetting that they are degrading the lady.  A guy that shouts at his lady especially in public needs to have a full home lecture on what it means to be romantic
3. ALWAYS ASKING HER WHAT TO GET AS A GIFT
You need to know what she would like; always asking what gifts to buy for her isn’t really romantic. If anything, it kills the vibe in that relationship; you kill every hope of expectancy, it clearly shows that you’re the keep-it-safe kinda guy and trust me when I say such things won’t take you anywhere. Surprise that lady. Make that love last; don’t ever kill that adventurous spirit in you. Don’t be a boring guy, I beg you. 4. DON’T MEDDLE IN GIRLS TALK
In my home town, any guy that consistently does this is called a woman wrapper and it shows a kind of weakness on the part of that man. Always wanting to be with your lady isn’t a bad thing but when she’s with friends, it’s best to give that boundary. Following them in a gist once in a while isn’t bad but when you are always with them, it is never romantic. Some guys see it as being romantic but trust me when I say you would lose your shine. Always know when to keep your distance.
5. ANNIVERSARY DATE
If you are married, then this is one date you shouldn’t forget. Anniversary is really special to a woman; almost more special than her birthday. To her, it signifies the day she got married to the love of her life. So imagine if you forget about it, she would take it like you don’t value the marriage. Women have their own way of thinking and we have to respect it. Save that date on your mobile; and you just might be the most romantic man ever; to her
6. IF YOU ALWAYS BUY THE SAME GIFTS
Buying same kind of gifts would only show that you are clueless and that isn’t a good thing. I must admit, knowing the kind of gifts to buy for a lady is a daunting task but a man that’s romantic wouldn’t have a problem in buying a gift that would suit the occasion. You really need to know the kind of gifts to suit the kind of lady you are dating. Don’t be a boring guy.
7. THE MUSIC YOU PLAY
You have every right to listen to the kind of music you love when you are alone but that only ends when you are alone. When you have a lady visiting or you guys are in the car you need to play the kind of music that would suit that vibe at the moment. Playing only the kind of songs would only reveal your selfish side and that’s never a good thing. It only shows you lack every idea of what being romantic entails.
8. WHO IS THAT GUY?
Being jealous isn’t a crime but you really need to cut down on it. When you constantly suspect that she’s hooking up with every guy it shows that you don’t trust her and you also don’t trust your ability to keep her. You really need to show that you’re confident. Lack of confidence isn’t a sign of a romantic guy.  People do a whole lot of unromantic things and they don’t have a clue about it. Being romantic might mean different things to different people but being romantic just entails being affectionate at the right time. Being unromantic shows that you don’t care.
People think that the feminine gender is the most romantic but I really doubt that; most guys tend to hide that romantic nature in them. Being romantic would do a whole lot of good to your relationship.
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